Can you hear me now? Good!

Let me tell you about something that has happened recently.

Someone that i have known for a few years has asked to date me as in relationship date me.

^insert real long deep sigh^

Ok people--i find this a huge headache b\c he used to be a friend of mine and now he wants something more. I mean the second to the day he found out i was single he has been blowing up my phone. I have been doing the i'm busy , i'll call u back routine with him. This doesn't stall him at all! And the funny part is that we don't even hang out! We never have! No movies. No dinner. No my place. No his place. No kissing. No nothing! Absolutely nothing!


So how the hell do you break with "Let's date each other exclusively?" HUH???

I mean dude did have a girlfriend and dropped her so he could--in his mind--pursue me. Well i finally had to tell him look i just got out of a relationship and i'm not looking for another. I need this time to enjoy being just me again. Ok?

He didn't like that. Said i should have left my ex a long time ago. That he was a loser that didn't know how to treat me right. That he can make me happy. So on and so forth. I just said finally in my best nice voice ever --i'm just not that into you like that ok?

Hello? Still there? Oh...i got hung up on.